What's different about life here

Starlog January 15, 2011

Klaipeda, LT

Medziotoju 10-2

Freezing rain can be a bit daunting even when traveling on foot. The journey across the LCC parking lot after church this morning took us about 10 minutes rather than the usual 1 minute. Snow and ice were covered with a veneer of slick ice. Any curve or rise in elevation of the slightest nature presented an almost in surmountable task. But surmount we did and then did what any American girl would do --- we went to the mall.

The Akropolis serves as a sanctuary in difficult weather hot or cold. Lights are bright, service friendly, and happy faces appear often. Today our mission was to find Vernon a pair of in-house shoes. Apparently he did not care for the tongue lashing he received before church about putting sand all over my newly cleaned floors. First, of course, came our after-church repast in the form of a shared meal salad, pizza, and hot fudge sundae! Vern did most of the sharing.

To our delight we found a movie “The Tourist” about to begin. Tickets were purchased and a mad dash was made to the closest store with shoes. Crocs were a quick and perfect find. Not cheap but just what was needed. Back to the movie to catch the previews. One slight problem presented itself --- however, the plot was not too complicated so the problem was minor--- when French or Italian was spoken, sub-titles appeared in Lithuanian. You have to smile at times like those.

What shall I tell you about? Perhaps, you would be interested in knowing what I see that you might not see. Each time I walk downtown, I see a number of ladies of various ages wearing full-length fur coats and exquisite hats. The sight is stunning. I see small children 2 and under with about 5 layers of clothes on. I now see why there are wool patterns for children and babies. The wool is the outermost layer and is not near the skin at all. I see expensive shoe stores by the dozens, as well as pizza shops, and Chinese restaurants. In my class are girls with very short skirts over long pants, over long johns, over knee high wool socks. (I know this because one of them endeavored to show me her wounds from falling on the ice against the stair edges and gashing her legs just below the knee.) Actually icy side walks in front of stores, and totally icy steps and stairs at public buildings would not be seen in American --- here you don’t see many lawyers. Students check out their textbooks instead of buying them. 8.5 X 11 paper does not exist nor do spiral notebooks with lined paper. Paper is A4 (whatever that means), and notebooks have graph paper. Mothers firmly believe that babies should have 3-4 hours of fresh air each day. Thus, today Vern noticed a baby outside the church in its buggy. The mother would go out to check on it regularly! If you order coffee with milk, you get expresso with a pitcher of hot frothy milk on the side. J Eat your heart out.

Although, the college is once again between presidents, life seems to be going along as usual --- from my outsider’s vantage point.

“Home” is getting homier thanks to Jysk – a cheap, cheap store with tons of inventory. Marietta browsed and advised while I filled my cart: large blanket (200x220cm—whatever that is), an extra clothes drying rack so I can get most the laundry done on the weekends, a mesh bag to serve as a laundry basket, a couple of wicker box things for holding stuff on the kitchen counter, colorful kitchen towels, bath towels for me (Vern insists these old ones suit him fine.), and a hanging organizer for the closet. The landlord agreed to reimburse us for an article of furniture to put in the bathroom. We needed somewhere to put towels, laundry detergent, make-up etc etc etc. Found something that might work. It is one of those take-it-home-in-the-box-and-try-to-read-directions-in-a-foreign-language things. You might be able to see a blue cloud of smoke all the way over the ocean.

Marietta and I may have come to an agreement. I will buy a crock pot for us to share, and she will share her other baking and cooking equipment. I feel good about this as buying all my stuff over again was not making me happy. A crock pot I can do. Unfortunately, they are only available in Vilnius at this time. Train ride anyone?